let me be really honest, the "it might be ruining your life" is a lie. It does ruin your life. 100 %. (But it might not be the ONLY thing ruining your life, so we can't give it full credit) Anyways... judgement is in it's nature (even though it's not that natural) designed to create a separation. The top three ones we use nowadays are probably right vs. wrong good vs. bad/evil beautiful vs. ugly and all the variations of those fitted to any individual case of people doing a

Some years ago I was convinced, that I was a good human being, because I was willing to go way beyond myself to "help" someone else. And I also believed that everyone could be helped. The idea that someone would lie about healing, just to be comfortable in my energy didn't occur to me. Deeper than that, the idea that someone doesn't want to change, heal or be happier, didn't exist in my world..?! So I carried people's trouble on my shoulders literally like it was my job. I ov

This was a 10 second lesson, but I guess it was prepared for months (maybe years). I was cleaning my car and got water all over my shirt and leggings. I also leaned in too close on the dirty door frame with the white shirt. Next stop for chore day: supermarket (aka the busiest place I had to be today) Now, the choice was clear, I'll go anyways, because I don't care. Then I could hear those thoughts of "They might think you peed your pants.. or just think you're a mess in gene